Dear Abby: Is this woman stalking my fiance?

DEAR ABBY I have a female friend Kylene who requirements yard work done weekly My fiance Josh goes over there to do the work for her He charges Related Articles Dear Abby Do I go to this lunch and incur my wife s wrath Dear Abby I suspect the other grandmother posted these horrible photos of me Dear Abby This delusion about our childhood has ruined my sister s life Dear Abby The bride s mother thinks the wedding was ruined She requirements to apologize Dear Abby The neighbors took my husband to dinner and I was left behind During the last two weeks she has been popping up at our home uninvited Kylene knows Josh s work schedule and makes sure she sees him daily at the neighborhood bar around in the afternoon The other day I went to the bar with Josh and lo and behold she was there waiting for him I was pretty upset because I don t see my Josh very much due to his tight work schedule Do you think she is stalking my fiance Kylene hardly talks to me when we are all together She talks mostly to Josh I have invariably assumed that you don t mix business with pleasure I think she s stalking him Kylene doesn t have any friends and I think she s jealous of me What do you think SUSPICIOUS IN INDIANA DEAR SUSPICIOUS I think that rather than stalking Josh Kylene is chasing him How does Josh feel about it Is he flattered Is he attracted to her Have you discussed the fact that her dropping by your home unannounced is inappropriate I agree that your friend may be jealous of you but the person who should put a stop to what has been going on is Josh not you DEAR ABBY I have worked with the same six women and three men for years Each time one has a birthday we have a small office party with lunch cake and ice cream and a gift in the range and the birthday person gets the remainder of the day off This is done for everyone except me Although it hurts my feelings I ve never revealed anything about being excluded and no one seems to have noticed the omission I did inquire twice if anyone had dined at a restaurant my husband will be taking me to for my birthday but no one picked up my hint that I m also a part of the staff Should I politely continue celebrating other people s special days or proclaim Hey I m here too INVISIBLE CO-WORKER DEAR INVISIBLE As the saying goes The squeaky wheel gets the grease Could you have inadvertently been omitted from a list of employee birthdays By all means speak up before it s time for you to retire The same letter appeared in the column of Miss Manners a staunch opponent of workplace socializing Here s what she stated DEAR ABBY My husband was let go from his job due to restructuring He s understandably upset and I see him sink further into depression with every rejection letter he receives for the positions he has applied for How can I help him SUPPORTIVE WIFE IN OHIO Related Articles Asking Eric My in-laws say I turn them away but they don t get what s going on in our lives Harriette Cole Now that I ve proposed I m getting worried about marrying her Miss Manners Who was wrong in the escalator tiff me or the young man Dear Abby Do I go to this lunch and incur my wife s wrath Asking Eric I notified my husband his clothes embarrass me but nothing has changed DEAR WIFE Help your husband by not pressuring him during this arduous time If he hasn t yet applied for unemployment benefits remind him he is entitled to them Suggest that if there are no openings in his field he should consider using his skills to do something different and perhaps contact a temporary employment agency Let him know you are a willing listener but do not pump him for information If no job turns up for him in the next six months and if you are not already employed consider finding a job to relieve the financial pressure Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren also known as Jeanne Phillips and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips Contact Dear Abby at www DearAbby com or P O Box Los Angeles CA